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“What the world needs right now”: ‘Unfollow’ by Megan Phelps-Roper

Paperback book "Unfollow" by Megan Phelps-Roper sits on top of a wooden table next to a small crucifix.

‘Unfollow: A Memoir of Loving and Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church’ by Megan Phelps-Roper, is a powerful and thought-provoking memoir. It offers a unique perspective on religious fundamentalism and the power of social media to shape our beliefs and identities. 

Phelps-Roper, a former member of the Westboro Baptist Church, shares her personal journey from a devoted member of the controversial Church to an advocate for tolerance and empathy.

One of the most evident strengths of Phelps-Roper’s writing in “Unfollow” is her honesty and vulnerability. 

She does not shy away from sharing the more difficult and painful aspects of her past, including her family’s radical beliefs and their public demonstrations of hatred towards marginalized groups. 

Through her narrative, she reveals the psychological mechanisms that kept her in the Church for so long and the internal struggle she faced when she began to question her beliefs.

Megan Phelps-Roper delivering a TED talk via her Instagram @meganmarie

Another strength of the author’s uniquely introspective narrative style is the way Phelps-Roper highlights the dangerous consequences of tribalism and groupthink. 

She demonstrates how the Westboro Baptist Church’s strict adherence to its doctrines and the insular nature of its community prevented its members from engaging with different perspectives.

Her highly detailed and personal anecdotes confront the reader with a visceral image of life within the Church, crafting an uncomfortable sense of immersion.

The discovery of internal inconsistency and hypocrisy was an important first step in seeing outside of group dogma.

Megan Phelps-Roper

This insight is particularly relevant in our current political climate, where we can see the harmful effects of echo chambers and the hatred of one’s ideological enemies – a worrying paradigm that Phelps-Roper unapologetically confronts.

A bible sits open on top of a table.

However, the book also has a small number of shortcomings that are of particular note to potential readers. 

The memoir is scattered with Bible verses that help illustrate how religious text can configure and distort the truth.

At times, the placement of the Bible verses feels abrupt, creating an uneven and disorderly narrative.

The author provides some insight into the broader social and political context in which the Church operates. However, there are times when her inquiry feels simplistic and may leave some readers with unanswered questions.

Phelps-Roper offers valuable insights into the destructive nature of religious extremism, although her analysis of the Church’s theological underpinnings could benefit from more depth.

Megan Phelps-Roper debuts her first book “Unfollow” to her followers on Instagram @meganmarie

Overall, “Unfollow” is an exceptionally crafted and wonderfully powerful memoir. It offers valuable insights into the complexities of religious fundamentalism and the human capacity for growth and change. 

Phelps-Roper’s story is an important, intimate reminder of the dangers of ideological rigidity and the power of empathy to bridge even the most profound differences. 

This book could not be more highly recommended to a prospective reader, and it is perhaps one of the most eloquent and insightful memoirs available today. 

“Unfollow” is not simply a good read but rather what the world needs right now.